Is Wanting More a Bad Thing?

December 26, 2018
Terri Maxwell

Is Wanting More a Bad Thing?

Is wanting more a bad thing or a good thing? My answer is a flat out: it’s a GREAT THING! The desire for more is not your selfish ego, but rather your soul. That’s right. Your soul communicates to you through desire.
Find out what your soul was put on this earth to do with our FREE Find Your Purpose course!

If you clicked on this title, you probably feel an ache for more – whether it’s more money, more success, more joy, or even more meaning to life. Or you could be questioning whether you should just be happy with what you have.

I don’t know about you, but I was taught that “more” was a bad thing. Simple messages like, “there’s starving children in Africa,” to more damaging messages like, “rich people are evil,” permeated my childhood.

Society sends conflicting messages about desires and goals.

So, is wanting more a bad thing or a good thing? My answer is a flat out: it’s a GREAT THING! The desire for more is not your selfish ego, but rather your soul. That’s right. Your soul communicates to you through desire.  

Don't be misled into thinking you shouldn't want more in your life: more money, more joy, more success and more love.
Succeed On Purpose Terri Maxwell Quote

Part of why we aren’t EVER completely satisfied is because the soul is on an innate quest for more. That’s why wants and desires are always bubbling up. It’s our soul wanting to evolve.  

Unfortunately, we misunderstand this soulful quest for more. We feel guilty, or worse, think where we are right now isn’t good enough, and therefore fear WE aren’t good enough.  

This causes us to harshly judge ourselves and make excuses for why we shouldn’t or can’t have what we really want. This is an endless and unnecessary trap.  

Where we are and who we are right now is exactly where we’re meant to be, while we experience the desire for more. It is through desire that we evolve. When you understand this truth, you’ll realize what those innate desires for more are not bad for you. They’re evidence of the soul wanting to expand to aid you in BECOMING more (not just having more).

Desire is a good thing. Desire is the language of the soul. Desire is how the soul communicates to us – by guiding us toward expansion and growth.  

As we begin an uncertain 2019, here are three tips:

1)   Don’t misinterpret the soul’s hunger for more and think you’re not good enough. Just open up to how your soul wants to grow and expand. Don’t doubt your desire or dreams. Follow them.

2)   Release the grasp of fear and remove limiting beliefs and self-defeating behavior that keep you stuck. Embrace the journey to more.

3)   Know that above all else, you have the power to create just about anything in your life. Embrace that power.

So, what MORE do you want to create? Do you want more success, more joy, more money, or more meaning?

Learn how to tap into the soul’s desires and create what you really want.

Join me in the Prosperity Challenge.

This challenge is designed to prove that you can create anything if you want it badly enough. And because collaborating with others can dramatically accelerate results, we are offering a Buy-One-Get-One offer to share, and together create what we want faster. Learn more and register here.

Open up to more.

Known as part Wayne Dyer and part Richard Branson, Terri is a world class business growth expert, serial entrepreneur, and life transformation coach with a purpose to inspire potential. In a career that spans more than 25 years, she has launched, owned, sold, rebranded or turned around more than 40 brands. She has authored several books, and created game-changing models for business and personal success. Terri is the Founder and CEO of Succeed On Purpose Inc.

Assume Positive Intent: Improve Success By Shifting Perspective
I learned to “assume positive intent,” meaning no matter what another person says or does, rather than immediately judging them, I instead would assume positive intent. I assumed they meant well or were doing their best. 
What Is Perfection? The Quest for More
Perfection is a quest for MORE, not a destination that somehow we just arrive at. It's simply the process of becoming more, every day, every week, every year.
How to Make the Law of Attraction Work
Have you noticed that very few people can apply the Law of Attraction and get results every time? For some, it works just occasionally or not at all. There are obstacles that hold us back, but we've got the key to overcoming them.